Showing posts with label goals. Show all posts
Showing posts with label goals. Show all posts

Monday, November 26, 2018

Motivation for Novelists

Truly have a reason to write or you won’t want to sit down and do it.
The disciple will come from wanting to finish your story.
Compare yourself to yourself.
Look at people you admire and think of it as modeling, not being envious. Do I want a life like theirs?
Appreciate each stage of your journey. Your journey is never linear.
Write what you love, and let the joy of creation come out.
Finding your voice happens when you let down your guard and let your real self through.
Push through and get the words on the page.
Break things down into little chunks.

GOALS
Decide what your real goals are.
Why do I want to write?
What are my dreams for my writing career?
What kind of success do I want to see?
How much am I willing to adjust in order to reach that success?
What do I envision my writing career will look like in 3-5 years?

WHO AM I?
Who am I choosing to be? A writer, a creator, a novelist!
What would my life look like if I were the best-selling version of myself? If I were a successful author, what would be true for me now? Act as if you are that person that you want to be.
What would the pro writer version of myself do if I don’t feel like writing?
What is the mentality of who I want to be? Go all in.
Best-selling novelists have a writing practice they do every single day. Figure out your own version of who you want to be and how you want to do it.

DAILY MIND-SET PRACTICE
Set a daily mind-set practice about who you want to be. Just five minutes for mind-set practice. Write your reality. Write your intention. What is the energy I want? Write where you want to go and what you want to achieve.
Do your soul work first before you start your writing day, and then take action.
With your mind-set practice, do something that triggers writing mode, like lighting a candle, diffusing essential oils, saying a mantra—some sort of ritual.

MAKE A COMMITMENT TO WRITING
Writing is a commitment, just like brushing your teeth every day.
What does a fit person do? What do they do every day? Apply that to you as a novelist.
You just have to take action, and it will eventually get you where you want to go.

YOUR PEP TALK
Tell yourself, “I am a bestselling author and bestselling authors write books!”

Monday, January 25, 2016

How Do You Eat Your Elephant?

by Suzanne Warr

We're getting to that time of the year when the goals of New Years are starting to feel like the elephant you're supposed to eat, but you can't because who can realistically sit down and eat an elephant?  The fact that I love elephants aside--

>insert highly inspiring obligatory elephant pic<



--eating an elephant one bite at a time sounds easier than it often is.  Yes, you just need to break it down into, ahem, bite-sized pieces, but what if your mouth is already full?  And what if you're getting sick of elephant, and need to eat something else for awhile?

These might be the challenges that you--like I--are facing with your New Years Goals.  However, rather than abandon the goals with a grumble and a sigh, I believe this is the perfect time to fine-tune the plan, and give the goals the extra motivation that will see them become a solid part of our lives.  Here's my plan for how we can do that.

  • Step One: evaluate how you feel about the goal.  I'll use an example from my writing life.  I decided to accept a writing friend's challenge to make this the year I write 366k words.  Or, since it's a leap year, to average one thousand years per day.  For me, this has been a good goal and I'm pleased to say that so far I'm making my goal with a pretty deep cushion.  I've found that aiming to open up whatever project I'm working on--revising counts as writing but at a 50% exchange rate--every day except my day off, of Sunday, seems to keep me in the flow.  Several days I've only hit 500 words, or less, but I've had plenty of days that were upward of 5k, too.  So, this is working well for me and I want to keep this goal.
  • Step Two: evaluate what's getting in the way of the goal, or what needs to change.  While I'm ahead on my word count and loving this goal, I can see the need for adjustment if I want this goal to be something I can do all year.  For one thing, I need to take a deep breath sometimes and let a train wreck day go.  I also need to trust myself--and my 'banked' words--on those days when I can't seem to get more than a few words on paper.  And finally, I need to take a hard look at my other life priorities to make sure I'm not sacrificing things I value to the goal.
  • Step Three: adjust the other parameters of life, including lower priority goals, to help the pieces all fit together.  In my case, there were other goals I made that have been getting the squeeze.  Some I know will continue to suffer neglect.  But, there are others that need to be addressed in order for me to justify the writing time--essential to my goal--without my guilt getting in the way of my reaching that goal.  For example, I have fitness goals, and planned to add a (very basic) muscle-building routine to my daily walk.  Ask me how many times I've managed that goal, and the answer will be a big uno.  One time.  That's it.  Now, I could scrap the fitness plan, recognizing that I can't push on all fronts and sometimes prioritizing means giving things up.  But, I had good reasons for setting it in the first place.  So, instead, I've decided to shift some of my mother-daughter time with my lovely teen to fitness-together time, and adjust my day so she and I can do our exercises together.  She has fitness goals too, and because of her work with a physical therapist they're non-negotiable and high priority.  And we chat anyway, right?  I always take time for her.  So, what's needed is for me to push myself to interrupt whatever I'm doing and take time to do my own exercises while she's doing hers, instead of thinking I'll get to mine later.  A win-win, and something I plan to try.
  • Step Four: remind yourself why this goal matters.  My final suggestion is to take time now to put up some pics, or maybe a quote, reaffirming why this goal is worth fighting for.  You might decide to rotate the motivational note on a monthly basis, if you think that will help.  In the past I've had years where I typed out a bit of text onto an inspiring picture, and made that my background wallpaper on my computer.  It was a nice way to remind myself of what I was working on, each time I logged on.  There's no doubt it will be easier for you to press on if you've reminded yourself what the big win in the end will be, and now is the time to do that!
As I'm sure you've guessed by now, I'm kind of a big believer in goals.  I've had the opportunity to accomplish some pretty cool things in my life, and have also had the chance to reevaluate things I thought were a priority but have turned to be getting in the way of my real dreams, and that's happened because I set goals and then thought through why I wanted those things.  How would you like to change your life?  What would you wish, for yourself, and how can you go about eating that elephant?

Here's a final, huzzah and hurrah thought for you: if you pick only one thing that you'd like to do differently this year, and then do that with only 50% the output you want, you'll still be better off than you were when the year started.  Isn't that a comforting thought?  Here's to goals, and the dreams that fuel them!

Thursday, January 21, 2016

My Goals for 2016

It's the first month of a new year, so of course I'm jumping on the band wagon of making goals. 

Goals are best achieved if written down and someone besides yourself holds you accountable. If you post them publicly, then you have to be the kind of person who won't be ashamed if you don't meet them or are okay with not being perfect and failing occasionally along the road of life. I'm both so I'm not afraid to share. 

Now my writing goals: 

Jan: Finish writing Silver Star (my NaNo book from Nov)
Feb: Edit Guy on the Corner
Mar: Send GOC to betas and The Make-out Artist for psych eval
Apr: Edit GOC with beta feedback
May: Format GOC
Jun: Artist makes cover for GOC and recruit for social media release 
Jul: GOC cover reveal & give it to editor
Aug: GOC final edits & recruit for launch
Sep: Launch GOC
Oct: Promote GOC
Nov: NaNo
Dec: Continue writing NaNo book

FYI 
I also set goals in 6 areas this year that I'm not sharing at this time. In case you want to make your own goals the categories are: 

physical
spiritual
emotional
service
work
family 

Remember the key to success is to make them small, measurable, and attainable. 

What are your goals this year?