When you build a fire, it burns hot and fast, and then the embers create a long, slow roast that can go on for hours. You add wood, and you stay warm for as long as you need to. When you don't add wood, slowly the fire dies down, but the embers stay good and hot. It takes quite a while for them to die by themselves, and often, campers pour water on their fires to make sure nothing is left that could start a forest fire. The great thing about those embers, though, is that if you don't want to put out your fire, you can stir them up with a stick and throw a little kindling on there, and before you know it, you've got a raging flame again.
Creativity never dies out. Sometimes you've got to let it simmer, sometimes you've got to walk away from the fire pit for a while, but come back and poke it. Then stand back or it will take your eyebrows off.
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Thursday, August 21, 2014
Monday, August 18, 2014
Marin At The Well
by H. Linn Murphy
My friend Wes owns two bookstores. The other day we were talking books, as we often do. He said to me, "Heidi, I want you to write me a book. I need a book like the Tennis Shoes books by Heimerdinger that will capture youthful imaginations and increase their testimonies." He told me he's tired of the freshet of admittedly great middle grade and YA fiction which doesn't also answer that need for spiritual nourishment our kids are finding lacking.
At the time I was polishing my LDS book about a sister missionary and was deep into edits for my forthcoming LDS romance. Those will hopefully increase testimonies, though not especially youthful ones. At the time I really had no intention of haring off in a completely new direction to light fires under today's youth. I have four other books in the works right now and a whole host of others waiting impatiently for publishers or agents.
But the other day something happened. I woke up with a story banging at my head to get out. It flew from its aerie nearly fully fledged. I can only think that God wants me to write this book and sent it to me nearly complete. I was on fire with it, lit from the inside.
I continued to kick at it, having so many other ideas flocking around for other books. I'm researching honey badgers and Mozambique, Johns Hopkins University and Niassa nature reserve. But this morning whole scenes of Mary's life clattered across the stage in my mind and I could no longer deny them pride of place there.
MARIN AT THE WELL is the answer to these questions. It's basically the story of Mary and Martha told through the eyes of a modern teen. I allowed myself to examine how I would feel in Mary's place. What would it be like to kneel at Christ's feet and hear his stories and teachings? How would it feel to tell my sister that Jesus was coming to dinner? How would it feel to stand in the knot of other weeping women on that fateful hill, knowing everything was changing? To crouch and look into the tomb and find my Savior gone?
I think a lot of times we don't write these powerful stories because we're afraid they won't make any money. Well this book is pushy. Marin and Marco want their story told and won't take a pansy-ish "no" for an answer anymore. I don't care if the "great unwashed hordes" want sex and violence. This is what I write.
I suppose I'll just have to tell Wes I've got his book. Hopefully Deseret will help me out with that.
My friend Wes owns two bookstores. The other day we were talking books, as we often do. He said to me, "Heidi, I want you to write me a book. I need a book like the Tennis Shoes books by Heimerdinger that will capture youthful imaginations and increase their testimonies." He told me he's tired of the freshet of admittedly great middle grade and YA fiction which doesn't also answer that need for spiritual nourishment our kids are finding lacking.
At the time I was polishing my LDS book about a sister missionary and was deep into edits for my forthcoming LDS romance. Those will hopefully increase testimonies, though not especially youthful ones. At the time I really had no intention of haring off in a completely new direction to light fires under today's youth. I have four other books in the works right now and a whole host of others waiting impatiently for publishers or agents.
But the other day something happened. I woke up with a story banging at my head to get out. It flew from its aerie nearly fully fledged. I can only think that God wants me to write this book and sent it to me nearly complete. I was on fire with it, lit from the inside.
I continued to kick at it, having so many other ideas flocking around for other books. I'm researching honey badgers and Mozambique, Johns Hopkins University and Niassa nature reserve. But this morning whole scenes of Mary's life clattered across the stage in my mind and I could no longer deny them pride of place there.
I think a lot of times we don't write these powerful stories because we're afraid they won't make any money. Well this book is pushy. Marin and Marco want their story told and won't take a pansy-ish "no" for an answer anymore. I don't care if the "great unwashed hordes" want sex and violence. This is what I write.
I suppose I'll just have to tell Wes I've got his book. Hopefully Deseret will help me out with that.
Thursday, August 14, 2014
Waiting...
I'm rambling about writing today. More specifically, the waiting that is involved with writing. There is no other business, but maybe science, where you have to wait so long for results. Writing the book takes forever. Of course, then you have a gazillion rewrites, but that's okay because it needs to be perfect before you query. The hard part is next- waiting to hear back from an editor. Agents are usually very zippy, but once they've all said no, you move on directly to editors.
I had one editor take over two years to get back to me. The good news was that she was very upfront in the process and told me it might take that long. The others take at least three months, but more often than not, six months to a year. And that's the hard part, waiting and waiting, and you can do nothing about it. Even worse is what I call the book 2 wait. That's where I am now. I got my foot in the door and had a book published by a legit publisher. Now I have a great credit in my query letter, and you'd think it would be easier? It's not. I actually joined a group of other writers that experience depression because they can't get that second book picked up. I'm not quite at that stage, but I have gotten to the part where it is hard to write anything new because my excitement is wearing thin. I just want to hear back.
My publisher has my book right now. It is a YA fantasy that I submitted four months ago. The wait is killing me, and I know 90% of all other authors go through the same thing. Ugh. The path is so hard. Any other writer's out there have similar problems?
Monday, August 11, 2014
What's that about Wisdom?
by Suzanne Warr
Honestly, most of it's just the usual hangups you come across when working out something like this. We'd planned to drop him from our car insurance 'cause he won't have a car and won't even be in the same state...but the car insurance refuses to drop him unless we have proof that he's moving to some other insurance. Which, he's not. He won't have a car. But that makes no difference to them so we'll be visiting our most fav party place, the DMV, and changing his license to an ID so we can make them drop him. He's also having trouble getting his bank card to work (just an electronic snafu) and the banks been helpful trying to straighten it out...but he still may not have it fixed before he needs it. And, the list goes on.
The most troublesome bit, though, is at least rather poetic--he's had complications from having his wisdom teeth pulled. This means that we'll be lucky if he's healed up (and recovered from a week+ of liquid/soft foods) in time to hit campus and start classes...but will definitely not be ready for his audition for jazz combo placement. Kinda hard to play a trombone with a swollen mouth, and besides, the dentist has forbade him from practicing!
So, why is this all making me chuckle? Because this, as I explained to him recently, is what the 'adult world' is all about. Yes, what should be a two minute call to activate a bank card may take twenty minutes, or two weeks. Yes, what should be simple oral surgery may hit a snafu and take time healing. Yes, the DMV will always take the longest possible stretch of time you can give it--cubed. It requires self control to remain polite, and an effort to be optimistic in this adult world, and a mega dose of patience won't hurt...which are all key ingredients to wisdom. How appropriate, then, that in our case it all kicked off with that lovely rite of passages that is getting one's wisdom teeth extracted.
Welcome to the adult world, my son. We move slower than you'd like, but we'll get you somewhere better.
Friday, August 8, 2014
Build It and They will Come by Monique Bucheger
On a recent trip to Walt Disney World, I came across these signs on a wall in the Animal Kingdom. The wall surrounded a new project being constructed in the park. No one could see the new project, just the wall surrounding it. It was camouflaged very well—for a huge building-sized anomaly in the heart of Africa. The cream wall held several motivational sayings such as this, but otherwise was pretty nondescript.
Then I realized that this poster translated very well to what we
do as authors—and moms. As a mom, I don't want my kids exposed to the seedier,
sadder, uglier parts of the world and do my best to show the world at its best,
hoping my kids will strive to keep those images in their minds as they travel
through this journey called life. Sure, they get exposed to hurtful people, sad
images, and events, but I don't allow those people and places to take up much
space and time in my children's journey when I can help it.
I teach my kids that we can minimize such things by giving some
thought to where we choose to be, how we choose to behave, how we choose to
react to, and what we choose to embrace. At the same time that they don't choose the worst, they can be
empowered by choosing to be in good places, read wonderful
literature, listen to amazing music, attend uplifting events.
As authors, we transport readers into "our worlds."
Those worlds ideally are not without conflict or any more perfect than the "real" world,
but while there, we want our readers to see and hear and feel a story we want
to share. Each author has a different motivation for the story they write, and
each reader will perceive it differently yet than the author intends—and that's
okay—and even the point. That's what makes it personal to the reader and helps
them connect to a story they choose to read.
Tracy Hickman, an
internationally best-selling author for over thirty years, points out that
authors are the only artists who cannot fully see and appreciate how their art
affects the beholder—simply because the their art plays out on the stage in the
reader's mind. But if we do it well enough, the performance touches the
reader's heart.
And when a heart is touched, there is no limit to the good that can be done.
Monday, August 4, 2014
As I became a mom and started all the sports and activities with my kids, I learned that it’s okay sometimes to say no. If life has gotten crazy and you can’t take one more thing, turn something down so you can stay sane.
In 2010 I owned a cute little bookstore called Dragons & Fairy Tales. It only lasted a year before funding ran out and I chose to close the store. The store had brought so many amazing experiences and I was able to meet authors that helped me with ideas to jumpstart my writing career.
Fast forward four years and my mind has been going back to my bookstore. I want it so badly it hurts. I’ve thought of reopening, but this time with a kickstarter to help fund it. Right around the time I was thinking of ways to make it possible, I was approached by a lady out here in Eagle Mountain that wanted to restart the arts council that had been tried several times.
Somewhere along the way I forgot that little piece of advice. But is it so bad? As long as I’m doing what needs to be done with my family and church, is it bad to volunteer for a few more things?
Fast forward four years and my mind has been going back to my bookstore. I want it so badly it hurts. I’ve thought of reopening, but this time with a kickstarter to help fund it. Right around the time I was thinking of ways to make it possible, I was approached by a lady out here in Eagle Mountain that wanted to restart the arts council that had been tried several times.
We met and discussed ideas in a group of about ten people. And guess who volunteered to be the director over literary arts? Yes, that was me. One of our visions for the future is to have a theater/museum/bookstore. I’m so excited, I can hardly stand it.
Along with that, I’ve volunteered to help with LDStorymakers, a book festival, and a few other opportunities that have come up. Every time I volunteer, I decide whether or not it will affect my time with family, or if it will interfere with other projects I’ve jumped into.
So, why not? Why not put yourself out there and do something you’ve always wanted to? Why not volunteer to help the groups you belong to? If you don’t, who will? It’s easy enough to wish that someone would start a group or open a business, but why not do it yourself?
Thursday, July 31, 2014
Dream the Dream: How badly do you want to publish?
The reality for many people who
want to finish their first book is that many times their writings and writing
time gets pushed to the way side. Over
the last several years I have been taught the value of dreaming. Day dreaming is necessary for everyone who
wants to fill a goal; an idea that has been thought about for many years.
As a young mother, I day dreamed
a lot about getting my own books
published or finding myself on many by-lines for syndicated articles and here I
am, 25 years later realizing I have accomplished just that. I have written and
published five books and have over 300 articles published in newspapers and
online websites with many syndicated all over the world and it all started with
a dream.
The book, Put Your Dream to the Test: 10 Questions to help you see it and
Seize It, by John C. Maxell has incredible power. If you have ever read his writings ---they
are always motivational and uplifting.
Start by answering these ten questions about your writing
dream:
1. Is my Dream really my dream?
2. Do I clearly see my dream?
3. Am I depending on factors within my control to achieve my dream?
4. Does my dream compel me to follow it?
5. Do I have a strategy to reach my dream?
6. Have I included the people I need to realize my dream?
7. Am I willing to pay the price for my dream?
8. Am I moving closer to my dream?
9. Does working toward my dream bring satisfaction?
10. Does my dream benefit others?
1. Is my Dream really my dream?
2. Do I clearly see my dream?
3. Am I depending on factors within my control to achieve my dream?
4. Does my dream compel me to follow it?
5. Do I have a strategy to reach my dream?
6. Have I included the people I need to realize my dream?
7. Am I willing to pay the price for my dream?
8. Am I moving closer to my dream?
9. Does working toward my dream bring satisfaction?
10. Does my dream benefit others?
We are writers with creative ideas and answering question four would help us realize that most of us are compelled to write.
He discusses the fact that if we have a dream, (for example to write a novel or non-fiction book) then we should have a strategy which refers to question five.
After
answering the above ten questions you have a solid concept of what you want our of your dream. Review and answer the rest of
the questions which follow:
1.
Find your present
position: Ask yourself where you are now in your plans to fore fill this
writing adventure.
2.
Discover your future
position: Where do you want to go? What will my dream look like when I have
achieved it?
3. See the positions in between: Find the pathway that lies between the first
two. What steps must I take to get from
my present position to my future one?
Examine all your Actions:
A. Do something: start the process by
doing something today, right now, immediately. Do something today that relates
to your dream. Do something every day that relates to your dream
B. Consider
all your options: Once you figure out a plan for reaching your dream there
is danger that you will become inflexible and stick to your plan no
matter what. Sometimes it’s wiser to
explore all options and be flexible.
C. Utilize all your options:
This is what really caught my eye:
John Maxwell himself had written a dozen or so books and realized he
wasn’t making an impact with his writing.
That is unbelievable to me. How could someone write a dozen books and
think they hadn’t made an impact on anyone?
But he did and he feels other authors or creative people do the same
thing. They write a book, they send it
to a publisher and then they hope for the best.
But as Mr. Maxwell says “hope is not strategy”. So he came up with a plan.
PLAN:
1. Come up with an idea for a
really good book. Make an outline of your ideas.
2. Find a team of people who will
help you (like ANWA or other writing groups)
3. Make a deadline for yourself. To
do great and important tasks two things are necessary: a plan
and not quite enough time. Meaning
the plan will be set and not having quite enough time makes you work a little
bit harder.
4. Creativity: brain storm with
your team to come up with ideas
5. Opportunity:
Thinking up ideas is great but you still have to get people interested enough in
your book so they will read it. Mr.
Maxwell taught seminars from his book and sold copies. (The book he wrote after
this whole experience is called Twenty-One
Irrefutable Laws of Leadership which has been used for many motivational
seminars and workshops.)
So dream, dream,
dream all that you want to accomplish and then take notes and get busy. There
are many dreams to dream here on earth and not enough time. We can accomplish
much with our actions and our plans.
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